On an unhealthy level, type twos start to manipulate people so they love them or feel in debt with them. These attitudes can be born from an unconscious state of mind which supports old beliefs that sustain dependent relationships. To feel the right to ask something back, they do more valuable things, so it seems like the other person is in debt with them. If they feel they are losing their beloved person they can become really possessive and intense by doing whatever they can to keep people close. So, Enneagram type 2s usually seduce people by paying special attention to them. That’s the best way to ensure there is a solid relationship between the Helper and their significant other. ![]() They enjoy long and deep conversations that open the way to what is intimate and most treasured by the other, that’s the most certain way to connect and win their trust and love. In the love field, type 2s are passionate and give everything to their beloved ones. Well, I’ll take the risk of saying that this song was written by a Two Type, just for this part: “Just say that you need me, I can’t care ’bout anything but you”. You will never know how much this song hit me and moved me, but I hope I gave you some insight to that.Have you ever heard that song by The Cardigans: “love me, love me, say that you love me”?. Going through that experience changed my whole life goal and trajectory, and I now am planning on being a close air support pilot pilot for the USAF, quite literally putting myself on the front lines for the vulnerable and the ones that need it most, so that line absolutely blindsided me as well, but in a much more perfect way. After heading to college I went through a depression and it made me feel weak and alone, and truth be told it took me 6 months to get over my ego and my feelings of weakness and failure and get the help I needed, but through that I was able to open up to my closest friends and family and grow closer to them than ever before. I subconsciously tested people and prodded to actively try to make them leave so I could trust they weren’t going to. I had to move across the country after my freshman year of high school and made a conscious decision that in my new life, I was going to put up walls, don an armor, push people away, and make people work to earn my trust because I had been hurt by people I trusted blindsiding me with what I felt was betrayals and fucking me over. I felt the need to step into that role as the man of the house, grew rabidly protective of my mother, and did indeed feel I had grown up too fast. When I was young, I was growing up with a single mom, only seeing my dad occasionally. I am an 8, and this song spoke to me more than you could know. I may be sharing more than y’all would want to know, and honestly more than I am comfortable but I really need to speak to this. She identifies as an enneagram four, and listening to your recording of the four with her was powerful. ![]() Finding this podcast, twenty years later while snuggling with my own teen daughter, was fun. The eight is the most badass enneagram type, in my opinion. It seems many people feel negative feelings about the enneagram type 8, but I’ve always been proud to identify as an 8. My mom kept saying my name, as she saw me too in the description, and she wanted to know I was hearing it with her. When the description came through on the speaker near my head, I remember feeling exposed and shocked. I was lying down on top of the luggage piled high in the trunk, against the direction of my parents, when the description of the enneagram 8 began. The hour before, I punched my sister in the face. My mom was listening to Richard Rohr tapes on the drive. on a loooong road trip with my large family. Subscribe to the Atlas: Year Two: reply 2 "It Don't Come Easy" Cover: fanlink.to/EasySAL "December 17th, 2018: Farout": fanlink.to/Farout ![]() "When We're Together" Cover: fanlink.to/WWT ![]() "October 30th, 2018: Kepler - Goodnight": fanlink.to/Kepler Phileena Heuertz' "Pilgrimage of the Soul" Book: amzn.to/2terIxX Phileena Heuertz' "Mindful Silence" Book: amzn.to/2taf17x Get the song: "Eight" everywhere music is! fanlink.to/AtlasEightĬhris Heuertz' "The Sacred Enneagram" Book: amzn.to/2Dl4MBS In this episode, I tell the birth story of "Eight" - piece by piece, I explain the heart, intention and inspiration behind each lyric and sound in this song, and discuss who these secretly soft and incredibly powerful Enneagram Type Eights are with resident Enneagram master (and a type Eight!), Chris Heuertz. New song debut: "Eight" - the 24th song (of 25) in my Atlas: Year Two series, and the 8th song in the Enneagram chapter - a song for each of the nine unique and beautiful Enneagram types.
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